Accepting Difference
Others are not vastly different from ourselves. We are all simply different keys, for different locks. But we are all still keys.Read more
The Reality of Social Pain
Loneliness is a form of social pain that is complicated by the size of modern societies.Read more
Maintaining a Healthy Approach to the Second Wave
Grab a friend. Turn COVID’s 2nd wave into a lesson on increasing our awareness and our appreciation of life.Read more
A Healthy Whole
Don’t make yourself sick by trying to avoid what you think of as weakness.Read more
Don’t Just Change Your Job, Change Your Life
We want to stop looking for things that will impress us or others. We want to look for things that service our impulses.Read more
Intentional Mornings
Mornings are huge opportunities because that’s when we gather in our sense of identity.Read more
The Nature of Commitment
Our impulses point to who we are at our core. Get to know that person. Because that version of us has a special grace to them.Read more
The Crucible of Loneliness
To understand what we are experiencing we must first understand that the darkness itself is like a holding space for our agony.Read more
Art as a Mirror for the Soul
In living life, everyone wants ‘a sign’ of what to do. Well, artists make signs for a living.Read more
Apocalypse Now
I will continue to be available for sessions. But in addition I am also working on some plans to try to attend to the needs of those for who do not have the option of working directly with me.Read more
The Vagaries of Life
Life is capricious every single day. Good people face terrible tragedies, and benefit from wonderful good fortune.Read more
Untangled Paradoxes
The capacity was always there. What’s changed is that we lose the thought-limits that create the paradox.Read more
Adding Unity to a Community
The best way to destroy an enemy is to make them a friend.Read more
Digital Dating
People can definitely find lasting happiness through dating apps. But even if we use them, it should be done so with an awareness of how the process itself alters what it is that we think we’re doing.Read more
Relationship Balance
We should not lose sight of their soul or their sense of purpose, any more than we should lose sight of our own.Read more
Social Graces
There are still people alive today that think there is no greater weakness than showing weakness.Read more
Media as Meditation
The shows and films we watch carry hidden depth. Finding that meaning takes us out of our own heads and into a beneficial state of wonder.Read more
Love is a Verb
A lot of people judge their parents, or previous generations, without really knowing what life was truly like for those people. Understanding creates empathy.Read more
The Sum Of Our Life
Our value is not created only by what we accomplish, it is also created by what we we care about, and make sacrifices for.Read more
Motherhood Revisited
It’s a healthy thing to come to terms with some of life’s greatest internal conflicts.Read more