As I’ve said before, people have a view of themselves made of of their thinking. They think people look at them and see their thoughts, but other people don’t see you either. They too will make various judgments which act as a thought-lens and focuses our attention on this or that. The result is that we see a completely different person than you do.
So what do people see when they look at you? In my experience it’s something a lot nicer than most people would ever guess. Here’s what some people saw:
Be kind to yourself. Not because it’s easy–because it works. Treat yourself well this weekend. Continue to be kind to yourself throughout the month and year and you will see results–the very best kind of results. Have a fantastic weekend everyone!
Scott McPherson is an Edmonton-based writer, public speaker, and mindfulness facilitator who works with individuals, companies and nonprofit organizations around the world.