The trick with this sort of suffering is that we get caught up in the whirlwind of our own thoughts. We start being the thoughts instead of remembering we're the thinker. But if we're the bike and not the rider, then how do we stick anything in spokes to stop the wheels from spinning? Usually there's a crash before we remember that we're a rider on a bike and not the bike itself. We have to learn to feel when we're peddling.